Chances are increasing that your family, immediate or extended, will be touched in some way by school violence. Whether it’s an attack on a teacher, a bomb threat, a stabbing in the hall between classes, or a shooting, most schools are seeing an up-tick in such occurrences, or at least the threat of violence.
Take my little granddaughter, Anna, for instance. She’s in the first grade in an unincorporated area of Arizona where her family lives. The area is experiencing explosive growth. Most of the area schools for the lower grades have Kindergarten through 8th grade. That’s quite an age span, but it usually doesn’t cause many problems.
Almost two weeks ago on Friday, April 6th, long before the massacre on the Virginia Tech campus, a bomb threat for April 20th was found scrawled on a wall of Anna’s school. (Note that the date coincides with the eighth anniversary of the Columbine shooting.) Since the weekend was upon them, school officials waited until Monday to send home a note warning of the event.
Of course, a number of parents were angry that they weren’t notified earlier, with the use of the school’s mass-phone-call system. However, most felt almost two weeks was sufficient warning.
Without knowing everything that has transpired as April 20th has approached, I can say that there has been a sharp increase in law enforcement activity at the school. Both the sheriff’s office and the state police have responded. Awards assemblies and similar events scheduled for that day have been postponed. Teachers anxious to know how and what to plan asked children in their classes to raise their hands if they were planning to attend Friday.
The new district superintendent held an open meeting in the library of Anna’s school to get acquainted with district patrons – and to answer questions about the bomb threat. Anna’s mother, my daughter-in-law, reported that the meeting was sparsely IBattended. However, she was interested to learn that the school janitorial staff was conducting sweeps of the entire school at the end of each day. When a parent questioned the custodians’ credentials for such an assignment, the superintendent responded that they were the ones most familiar with the school, with all its nooks and crannies, and would be the first to recognize anything out of the ordinary.
On Friday, April 20th, with law enforcement present, all entrances to the school will be locked except for two, through which all the children must pass as they arrive. Every bag and back pack will be thoroughly searched. Bomb-sniffing dogs will be present and the school day will proceed – not quite as normal – while the faculty, staff and parents hold their breath and pray nothing happens. But those are the adults, who know and understand that very few bomb threats have any substance to them. Of course, tit’s the students who are thoroughly traumatized.
Little Anna brought home the school note about the threat with as much interest as she usually regards such announcements from the principal – she threw it on the table with a wad of corrected papers and homework. It didn’t take her mother long to discover it, however, and though she was careful not to alarm Anna any more than necessary, Anna soon deduced that something scary was afoot.
When my daughter-in-law called her husband, my son, she was surprised at his strong reaction as he expressed anger that anyone would threaten not only a public school, but his own darling daughter.
At school the next day, there was talk of little else among the students. Anna is normally a confident, happy girl, but she has a worry-wart side to her sunny personality that kicked into high gear. It soon became apparent that Anna was not going to go to school willingly on April 20th. In order to avert an inevitable battle of wills and further traumatization for their terrified little girl, my son and his wife wisely decided to let her stay home and play with her younger siblings tomorrow.
In all likelihood, nothing at all will happen at this rural Arizona elementary school. But plenty of damage has been done without an actual explosion.
The perpetrator of the threat had no knowledge (I hope) of the coming Virginia Tech massacre, but that tragedy has done nothing to comfort parents, grandparents and friends of the students and staff at this school, who are watching, praying and assessing.
For the hundreds of children who attend the school, the bomb threat has meant shock and terror. They are not old enough to rationally process the situation (are any of us?) and may experience lasting effects such as nightmares, distrust of others and fear of school far into the future.
As the worried grandmother, I hope and pray that the school staff and law enforcement handle the situation for the best outcome. I hope little Anna is looking forward to honing her double Dutch jump rope skills at home tomorrow, and not focussed on events at the school. I hope her parents feel the calm that comes from doing all they can to protect her. I hope that on Monday school will return to normal without further interruption.
And I hope the perpetrator is discovered, appropriately punished, and removed forever from Arizona public schools.
My daughter-in-law expressed a sentiment that many of us are feeling: a desire to hide away her little family in a safe haven, far from any thing or any one who could harm them. Unfortunately, no such shelter exists, but we can do our best.
The first step is realizing that, ultimately, it isn’t schools, teachers, superintendents, the sheriff, babysitters or anyone else who will keep our children safe.
I feel as if I’m revealing a well-kept and guarded secret:
PARENTS HAVE THE PRIME RESPONSIBILITY FOR PROTECTING AND SAFEKEEPING THEIR CHILDREN.
Within the law, parents must do what it takes. I applaud my son and his wife for taking a stand.
If all parents would accept and act on that responsibility, a tiny bit of precious sanity would return to our world. All children would be safer.
And perhaps we would see less school violence.
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